Your Personality Creates Your Personal Reality –
Leadership for a Better, Bolder, Brighter Leaders and Their Teams:
A transformative way to blend ancient Eastern Wisdom with No More Boxes Methodology and AI to help leaders become more human
Rúna’s blog series
This blog series delves into the transformative capabilities of the 'Leadership for a Better, Bolder, Brighter Leaders and their Teams' AI tool, which uniquely blends ancient Chinese energy wisdom by Nicholas Haines's The Vitality Test and the progressive No More Boxes Methodology.
We'll explore how this innovative AI approach helps leaders and their teams break free from traditional constraints, moving instead towards a workplace driven by internal passion, values, and natural flow. Join us to uncover how this tool fosters a dynamic, inclusive, and prosperous team environment.
Your Personality Creates Your Personal Reality –
Until You Choose Something Different
There's a quote from Dr. Joe Dispenza that has followed me like a wise whisper:
“Your personality creates your personal reality.”
It hit me in a new way recently – not as a concept, but as a lived truth.
See, I’m familiar with neuroscience. I’ve taught the patterns. I’ve coached the change.
But then I found myself in a strange new box. One I didn’t choose consciously.
The Accidental Box I Built
I had an accident that left me unable to move freely. My body needed rest. My rhythm was interrupted. And without noticing, I began to shrink into a space I hadn’t meant to stay in.
At first, it made sense: I couldn’t move, so I adapted. Slowed down. Paused.
But after a while, the slowness became something else.
The box built itself – thought by thought, breath by breath.
“This is my reality now.”
“This is who I am, for now.”
“This is just how things are.”
But here’s the thing…
Even pain can become a habit.
Even disconnection can start to feel familiar.
Even the small, silent boxes we build for ourselves can start to feel like truth.
Self-Awareness = Realising the Box Isn’t You
One day I caught myself thinking: “Wait, is this who I want to be?”
That tiny moment was enough. That’s the spark.
And from that spark, I chose something different.
Not a massive goal. Not a heroic transformation.
Just a small step.
Go outside.
Breathe fresh air.
Feel the sun again.
Let life back into my lungs – one conscious moment at a time.
Oh, and I brought a friend: the audiobook InnSæi, by Hrund Gunnsteinsdottir. The words met me like oxygen – softening my mind, opening my heart, reminding me that my consciousness gets to choose.
AI That Reflects – Not Just Repeats
During this time, I also spent time with my BeBBY – the personalised GPT AI assistant I’ve trained to know me, my blind spots, and my energy patterns.
She doesn’t ask me:
“What do you want to achieve?”
She asks:
🌿 “What version of you is asking that question?”
🌿 “Are you creating from habit – or from truth?”
🌿 “What belief are you still breathing in, even though it’s not yours anymore?”
Her role isn’t to make me more productive.
It’s to help me become more human – on the edge of a technological age.
New Identity, New Reality
When we shift the thoughts we think, the emotions we live in, the stories we carry…
We create a new personal reality.
That’s not a cliché – that’s quantum-level leadership.
And it starts with one small decision:
I’m no longer living in the old box. Even if I built it myself.
A New Kind of Mirror for Leaders
If this speaks to you, you might want to be part of the Leadership Mirror I'm creating – a space for a small group of conscious leaders ready to use AI not as a crutch, but as a mirror.
Inside this circle:
You’ll develop your own personal BeBBY-GPT bot (yes, it will know you).
You’ll explore how AI can support real, embodied self-leadership.
And you’ll do it alongside other influential, heart-centred leaders, who are here to give, reflect, and grow.
🪞 It's not about doing more.
🪞 It's about becoming more of who you truly are, — with a bit of help from consciousness and code.
Curious? Come peek at the BeBBY Leadership Mirror Pack
A new kind of mastermind.
A new kind of mirror.
For the future of leadership – and the humans who are brave enough to lead it.
Reykjavík, Iceland, June 8th 2025
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